How to Seduce a Virgo Woman

Men are always wondering how to woo the softer sex and would be happy with a “play book” that gives them a step by step action plan to seduce a woman.

As a Virgo woman, I’m here to provide you with the “play book” on how to seduce Virgo women.

1.  Dress Snappy: Virgo women are drawn to those who dress like a million dollars. That means clean, well kept clothing. A Virgo woman will notice if there are stains and wayward food bits on your clothing. She will notice if the button is missing. She will notice if you hem your pants with staples.  She will notice if your shirt is too small or your pants are too tight.  If you want to impress a Virgo woman, choose your wardrobe carefully. If she is a casual Virgo, fashionable jeans and a clean, well- pressed button shirt will be perfect.  If she is a dressy Virgo, clothes that step it up a notch will catch her attention.

2.  Have Great Personal Hygiene:  If there is one thing a Virgo woman hates, it’s sloppy personal care. Take a look in the mirror before smiling at her. If you have food stuck in your teeth she will turn and run faster than you can say “take out”. She’ll also notice stray nose hairs, earwax, dirty fingernails, and dry skin. And while a Virgo woman is way too diplomatic to say anything, she’ll try to tip you off to the little faux pas.  She’ll lick her teeth, scratch her ears, look at her nails, anything to get you to notice the same thing she sees. And pop a mint in that mouth before kissing her. Nothing will kill the mood more quickly mid kiss than having bad breath.

3. Have Intelligent Conversation:  A Virgo woman is most likely well versed in many subjects and will enjoy having her mind seduced along with her body. She’ll enjoy the challenge of debating with you and deep conversations that may change the way she thinks and her beliefs. If you can get her to change her once-solid opinion? You’re in there!

A Virgo woman looks for someone that can impress her at the dining table first and in the bedroom next.  Can she take him to meet her family and know he can carry on a conversation with her brother about sports, her father about the economy and her mother about the Royal wedding? Anyone looking to woo the Virgo will make sure they  read every day and is well-rounded in their knowledge base.

4.  Be Organized:  If you are planning to date a Virgo woman, you better have all your ducks in a row!  She hates to be kept waiting and if you are even five minutes late, a Virgo woman will begin to think you don’t value her time.

Know where you are going.  Pulling over to the side of the road to check directions or ask for directions will frustrate her and begin your date on a sour note. Know your details in advance–no last minute changes that may result in your date failing. Virgo’s hate to be left in the dark and when you make plans and they don’t go off flawlessly, she will not enjoy the date.  And, if you tell her you will call on Monday, you better call Monday morning. Make sure you write it down!  Telling a Virgo you forgot about an appointment or commitment to her is the fastest way to kill any chance you have with her.

5.  Be Honorable: Virgo’s have very sensitive bullshit meters!  She will know instantly if you’re lying to her or covering something up.  She will call you on it and she will never forget it you tried to deceive her. Virgo’s are perfectly capable of forgiving.  They have a very large capacity of moving on and moving up. If she truly feels that you are genuine and true, she will give you everything she has, heart, mind and soul. Once you are loved by a Virgo woman, you will always hold a special place in her heart and her mind.

Virgo women ofter remember former lovers with kind thoughts and tender feelings. But they never forget jackasses, either.

6.  Dream Big!  A Virgo woman will be attracted to someone who has big dreams and a life vision.  Seduce her with your willingness to reach for the stars and she will be your strongest supporter in finding a way to make those dreams come true. Show the Virgo woman you are willing to dream big dreams with her.  Show her you are willing to support her as she thinks 5, 10, 15 years in advance.  She has a plan and she knows how she is going to get there.  Traveling that path with a soul mate and lover is even better for a Virgo woman.

7.  Get a little freaky: Virgo women are queens at the dining table and vixens in the bedroom.  She enjoys adventure between the sheets and is willing to try just about anything once. She loves someone who takes charge and makes the moves.  She is always in control outside the bedroom, so she wants to be shown the works IN the bedroom. Virgo’s love a kiss that takes over their whole body. Make her toes tingle!  Press your body to her and let her melt into you. Virgo’s are not keen on public displays of affection, so be sure to read her signals if you are going to attempt to make that kind of move.  The eyes say it all.  If you see lust and desire there, go for it. If it looks like “hell no!”, don’t even attempt it.

A Virgo woman is  challenge, but once you have her interest, you’ll be treated to the ride of your life! Saddle up!


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'How to Seduce a Virgo Woman' have 47 comments

  1. April 21, 2011 @ 8:35 am lceel

    Methinks, my dear, you have described the seduction of 9 out of 10 women – not just the Virgo.

  2. April 21, 2011 @ 2:11 pm natalie

    There are many woman who would rather see a man in jeans and a t shirt before a suit. There are also many women who are fluid with their time, and if you are a few minutes late, they don’t mind. Most Virgo women prefer a clean shave where as many other signs love the scruffy to full beard look. Virgo women are adamant you can carry on conversations about a wealth of topics, whereas many others are only concerned you can carry on a conversation with them about what they love. Many of the zodiac signs are hurt over and over because their bullshit meters are not finely tuned. A Virgo will only allow someone to hurt them once and then will rarely trust that person again. Virgos are always looking to be involved in many big things and be a part of huge projects. There are several signs that are happy to do things that are smaller focused and closer to home. Very few of the signs are willing to let their inner freak out and are comfortable with closer boundaries. A Virgo is willing to go far and to see just where the line falls.
    As I stated at the bottom, women are all unique and things are similar to them. This article was some tips on Virgo women and perhaps as you say, women in general. Thanks for reading.

  3. August 10, 2011 @ 10:17 am virgotoo

    Lceel: I’m cracking up over here…you just got Virgo-ed by Natalie.

  4. October 24, 2011 @ 3:42 pm John Myers

    ive had numerous lovers and gone through the whole zodiac twice over,,virgo was the best i ever had,,in and out of bed ;

  5. October 24, 2011 @ 6:47 pm CrystalWatersIM

    As a Virgo woman, this describes me to a ‘T’!

  6. November 4, 2011 @ 8:04 pm LeoTim

    Hmmm…I am curious miss Natalie, what is a virgo womans take on a leo man with more of the positive leo traits shining rather than your typical egotistical lord of the jungle? I will tell you it takes a lot to post this but I met a funny charming absolutely naturally beautiful virgo woman and feel clueless all the sudden…

  7. November 18, 2011 @ 8:08 pm Shuron White

    Yes, this is me. I am a virgo woman and all said is true. Thank you,Virgo Lady- Shu~SHU

  8. December 23, 2011 @ 10:33 am Mari

    This is pretty fantastic! I’m a virgo too. I have to say, I would not expect my man to read the newspapers every day. But on the other hand, I love, love, love your comments on how virgos are capable of forgiveness. It really confuses me when men think I an unforgiving or close-minded! I have standards, yes, but it does not make me rigid.

    @LeoTim, Natalie is the expert so don’t take my word for it. Leos are generous and expressive, and they know how to hold a conversation. For me, leos lack in subtle expression. Study your virgo, and do something to surprise her in a way that will touch her heart. Also you should know, virgos don’t feel loved if they don’t feel USEFUL. I know for myself, I like when people put me in a position to be empathetic. Expressing empathy is a way for me to care for others. When men make me feel empathy for them, whether they know or not, they get points with me.

    Just be yourself! Subtle expression and soliciting her help might be helpful.

  9. January 16, 2012 @ 10:51 am Maria Aquino

    Thank you Natalie for schooling Mr. Lceel on what differentiates a Virgo woman from other women of the Zodiac. Yes, what you described will impress many women, but it is indeed the few details that will truly impress a Virgo woman and get a “Yes” for a first date. As a Virgo woman, what you described will give a man an upper hand, as I am very choosy in mates (I know many other Virgo women are.) I’d rather do without than go on a date with someone I am NOT intellectually interested in. And if I am on a date, and he assumes to get touchy feely in public, he will get the “death glare” and possibly a resounding “No!” Many other women like public displays of affection, but not most Virgos. Not too many women are utterly reserved in public and freaks in the bedroom. Let’s face it, many Virgo women look cold and possibly uninterested in sex, but the lucky, smart man that is curious and daring enough find how Virgos are in the bedroom will be in for a surprise. Virgos don’t really advertise what they offer in the bedroom. Thanks Natalie for your know-how and these helpful hints.

  10. January 25, 2012 @ 12:52 pm Karrin Elaine

    Haha, Im a virgo and this actually describes everything i want without making virgos sound like complete rigid virgins.I love a man with wits, but will hate them if they smell bad! And as for freaky in bed…. haha virgos like to have fun(:

  11. March 27, 2012 @ 3:23 am Monk

    New Adventures in our early 50’s…her the Virgo creature of beauty and intelligence and me the Aries. I believe in my younger days I would not have a chance with this lovely. Now, with age tempering and honing most of my fire, coupled with a clear life direction I have some hope for success in this union of signs. I’m excited to be near her and to see her. Everything I read about these two signs both frighten and excite. I fear the ‘critical’ nature of virgo; and am hoping she expresses these ‘observations’ in a rational, caring way. Any hope for us? We are very new and testing the waters…there has been no initimacy as of yet other than a hug she gave ( which did take me by surprise )

  12. March 31, 2012 @ 9:28 pm chena

    Im a VIRGO and this is DEFINETLY me…

  13. April 18, 2012 @ 10:02 pm Letty

    99.9 % accurate although I have to say I don’t understand the display of affection thing- I love displays of affection.
    Also you forgotto mention that us Virgos hate boisterous people and conceded lovers–we can quickly cut you down to size if you display that kind of behavior in front of us. Also, if you cross us, then you best be aware, cause payback will be unforgettable!

    Also-most of us like to make the first move, allow us to and that will the red carpet to unfold for your welcome lol.

  14. April 18, 2012 @ 10:37 pm Letty

    I must be losing my Virgoness- I mispelt words and made grammatical errors in my post above lol.

  15. April 29, 2012 @ 11:54 am enigmagirl

    A mirror of me, I’m a typical Virgo.

  16. May 20, 2012 @ 3:19 pm Liz

    I agree with Iceel…

  17. June 4, 2012 @ 9:30 pm E

    This is me, to a T!

  18. June 10, 2012 @ 5:28 pm virgo912

    I agree with every thing. no not all women are the same!! this article described virgo women to the T. virgo is the ONLY SIGN represented by a women the rest of the signs are animals, lol… bite me!

  19. June 10, 2012 @ 5:31 pm virgo912

    oh and i happend to like public affection. if i am with the right partner a nice quickie in a public bathroom is only the beginning…

  20. June 16, 2012 @ 1:52 am MeVirgo

    Totallyyy agree ;) am Virgo

  21. June 22, 2012 @ 5:11 am leon

    well:) im typically lion who honestly now is in love so bad to a virgo woman. Thats my first ever to feel this beautiful feeling to a virgo. i’ve been dating other girls before (ie libra,gemini,capri, pisces and aqua lady) but this one is completely …i mean; im melting, might be she’s my soul match from heaven . completely challenging,different characters,yes it’s difficult one. but i feel being honored and lucky after trying hard to get really close to her by anyway possible but true my heart.
    It has been a year of being just friend being patient and being true myself in front of her. yes i love her more than any1 because despite of our differences in characters etc .. i found that she has all what i don’t have, if i could do better to take only our positive sides between us, this could be ” heaven” that no other compatible couple can even beat. Perfect!
    i have sun in Leo, Ascendant in Gemini and Moon in Virgo so venus in leo….
    Since i met her, surprisingly i have more calm temper, willing and patience more than before.
    OMG, she is so …my dream queen.
    today, she let me Kiss her for the first time, she hug me so nicely.. It was hard until i got this Kiss.
    no word …but i can feel she let me in to her …
    I wish this can be my future … bright so bright …
    as leon you got no enough of only a kiss, but this time, this kiss is like more anything i’d ever felt before!
    Does any1 know this is a good signal of …”OK” from Virgo female!??? any suggestion will be appreciated a lot ;) Thnaks
    PS. she’s naturally beautiful ..! ( perfect)*

  22. August 3, 2012 @ 9:24 pm virgo0909

    I love these tips! They are so accurate! I notice EVERYTHING, so he had better get it right, especially on a first date, since that is when the first impressions are typically made.
    @Virgo912: As observant as I am, I never noticed that Virgo is the only sign that is represented by a woman and not an animal! Would you look at that?! And what ladies we are…;)
    @Leon: It sounds like she’s opening up to you, little by little, and it sounds like she’s taking the lead. Let her take the lead, and she’ll drop little hints and clues as she wants more affection from you. Pay VERY CLOSE attention, and you’ll pick them up! Good luck with your lady love!

  23. August 5, 2012 @ 10:17 am Gary Johnston

    I have had the pleasure of (brief) chatting with a (Virgo Woman) friend. We found our chat-time(s) very stimulating! She always; in closing, would strongly suggest ‘we’ do more than ‘chat’…’I MISSED THE TRAIN’ ! She did not emerge from total obscurity until recently. After 17 long years she finds me on F/B….and got married shortly after I did. I detect regret on her part that we did not follow ‘our’ paths. And now here is the ‘irony’…last week I have met on-line, a beautiful angel who also happens to be a Virgo! What gives!? Hopeful.

  24. August 23, 2012 @ 3:17 pm Mrs.Fun

    Oh sending this to my husband of 16 yrs. He seems to know me, the virgo, pretty darn well.

  25. August 25, 2012 @ 3:39 pm Mark

    Looking for good tips for my sister, an Aries, who is pining after a Virgo female.
    Will these tips work for a girl too?

  26. September 11, 2012 @ 8:35 pm Hstarr

    I HATE Virgo’s male and female and add to that Scorpio women!!!!! HATE AND I MEAN HATE THEM! Secondly in terms of romantic relationships it’s better to compare the person’s ascendant sign NOT sun sign!!!!

  27. September 12, 2012 @ 12:16 pm Mitch

    Mark: I don’t see why not; tell her to give it a try and please let us know how it works for her!

    Hstarr: Well. Okay. Thanks for weighing in!

  28. September 14, 2012 @ 5:32 pm LivingT

    I have never and i mean ever been described so well before in my life!!! Bravo!!!!

  29. October 26, 2012 @ 3:40 pm Missshowbizz

    I agree..I too am a Virgo. This is totally precise.

  30. November 26, 2012 @ 11:11 pm i love virgo women

    I’m a taurus male and i love these women to death, but unfortunetly i ruined two great relationships with virgo women and wish i never done so. hopefully the future is more promising.

  31. December 18, 2012 @ 8:05 pm Thebossesdaughter

    This is one of the best descriptions of myself ive ever read. Kudos!
    Many people say we are prudes in the bedroom and this is just unbelievably untrue. They better ask somebody.

  32. June 1, 2014 @ 12:47 pm DateAvirgo

    I’m dating a virgo and everything right is true…. One missing thing is, they think too deeply about things that aren’t too serious i.e misinterpretation is one of their problems!

  33. October 23, 2014 @ 1:20 am m jay

    I’m a Virgo and this is me hands down. I can care less what the others say…. this one right here is on point all the way. I have never read anything so on target. Job well down!

  34. November 16, 2014 @ 9:58 am Martina Steiner

    Natalie this should be a must read for men who are about to date a Virgo. Very much to the point. :) many great virgos over here, glad to read the comments.

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  36. August 17, 2015 @ 5:28 pm MissVirgo

    I’m a virgo female and although I agree we can be extremely critical and analytical,I don’t believe all those traits are spot on. We may notice everything but it’s not to say if you get one thing wrong we will simply walk away. No you don’t have to be perfect to be with a virgo woman. Also some virgo females do like taking charge in the bedroom.

  37. November 28, 2015 @ 11:58 am GinnyMae

    I enjoy reading these types of things. I really enjoy the comments that others read; so many different perspectives. Even though there are aspects in your description that do descripe many of the Virgo traits, I do not fit into this group mentality or the mannerisms described. Although I notice many things about my Taurus love, it doesn’t bother me that he isn’t very tidy. It gives me opportunities to show my talents in cleanliness and organization. Which makes him appreciate my superior skills. He is so hard to please, but it is totally worth pleasing him. He is the quintessential manly man. Which drives me wild and melts me. If he is late, I do not care at all. However, I will stress the importance of being calm and not brash or rude. As for my Virgo petpeeves, rudeness is a major turn off. Sly sarcasm is alright. But straight up being a loud asshole is a relationship killer. I kind of rambled on there, but I’m sure I hit the major points.

  38. November 29, 2015 @ 8:38 pm I my Khan

    I am Pisces married man and fallen in love with a married woman who is Virgo!!!!!! … And so far I have freely signs from her, and when look at her eyes, I can almost hear her thoughts saying, fuck me please!!!!

  39. November 29, 2015 @ 8:41 pm I my Khan

    Correction…. So far I have seen her freeky side.

  40. December 12, 2015 @ 7:01 am King Leo

    Ha Virgos are pretentious and easy to empress… Any man seeking one should be bold, funny, intellectual with just enough cockiness n flash n she’ll melt in no time. But then again all this comes natural to the Lion so all you other signs might be in trouble. Personally I’ve never met a Virgo I didn’t have eating out the palm of my hand.

  41. January 18, 2016 @ 2:25 pm Redwood Rymer

    With everybody here and they’re great input in Austin points of views, I get to see any pairings of capricorns and virgos mentioned in any of this I myself am a Capricorn and my wife is the Virgo very interesting my past 3 relationships have all been long term and all been with a Virgo woman thumb other input is sorely missed and would be greatly appreciated.

  42. April 8, 2016 @ 1:53 am Lina

    I’m an Aquarius woman and I stopped dating Virgo women. Not a good match, too much work and too intimidating outside the bedroom. Don’t get me wrong, I appreciate those Virgo traits and find it utterly attractive how a Virgo woman opens up when in private mode. Her smile and eyes brighten. I’m currently fascinated by my Virgo friend, but I know better than to go there with her.
    Either I’ll give in to her or she’ll get tired of giving hints.

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    Lmbo, I was thinking the same thing!

  45. December 25, 2016 @ 8:05 pm Timmy

    How about a Taurus man , what are the odds of compatibility?

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  47. September 6, 2017 @ 1:11 am yaya

    I’m s proud Virgo!! And yes that is me to the “T”.

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