In my job as a personal sex consultant, I’m most often asked about G-spot orgasms, as well as “squirting” or “gushing”.
Squirting is the female equivalent of male ejaculation.
Most often, women can squirt with a G-spot orgasm. The G Spot is located approximately 1-3″ inside the vaginal canal on the front wall, almost diagonally up from the clitoris.
It is the bundle of nerve endings that fill up when stimulated.
The fluid that is produced during female ejaculation is not urine.
The fear of many women is they are going to urinate, so they do not allow themselves to relax into the intense rush from a G-spot orgasm.
The G-spot can be located during solo or couples play. You can use fingers or a toy for this stimulation. The KEY to this orgasm for women is the ability to relax and allow the sensations to take over. It can take time and it takes a willingness to just let go. If you don’t get it at first, try and try again. But never let it be a pressure filled accomplishment.
Can every woman have a G-spot orgasm? The answer to that is..maybe.
When asked if every woman can have an orgasm, the answer would logically be yes. If one has a clitoris, one should physically be able to orgasm. But DO they? No.
There are many women who never have an orgasm in their life. The same can be true for the G-spot orgasm. Can every woman achieve this ecstasy? Possibly. But everyone will not.
The same applies to a “squirting” or “gushing” orgasm.
It is usually physically possible for every woman to do it, but many cannot.
But, if you are searching for that “Gush”, here are a few tips and tricks to help you out:
1) You need external AND internal stimulation: The best duo is a bullet or bullet type toy and a dildo or rigid shaft type toy. Bumpy glass works best for the bumping sensation on the G-spot. The clitoris responds to a steady vibration that the bullet provides and the G-spot responds to a bumping sensation, similar to the “come hither” motion of two fingers.
Directions: Relax on your back and bring your knees up. Lube up your bullet and place it against the clitoris on your favorite setting. Lube up your dildo and insert approximately 1 – 3″ inside the vagina. In a gentle upwards, towards the belly button, bring the dildo down on an angle. Insert with a downwards motion towards the tailbone in a rhythmic motion, insert downwards, pull out upwards. The bullet is resting against the clitoris, giving you the stimulation most women are used to when it comes to a toy.
2) Resist, But Not Completely: As that orgasm builds and you feel the sensation of needing to pee, relax and take a deep breath. Then, at the peak of the clitoral orgasm, bring the dildo out and push down, like you’re going to urinate. The G-spot fluid that’s built up with the bumping of the dildo against the area will be pushed out with a gush or a squirt!
Remember, keep practicing and each G-spot orgasm may be different from the last, but it’s DEFINITELY different from clitoral!
So go on, give a shot at the Spot!
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