My Lady Bits are Lacking…
In attention that is. See, this baby is an ambush baby. While I am wildly excited for this baby to arrive on the planet, I was NOT prepared for this little one to show up in my womb. We are starting from scratch this pregnancy. Literally, I have 5 pairs of brand new baby socks…that’s it. Combined with a very stressful job and kind of being pissed off at Big Red, has left our sheets very much lacking in the hottie patottie department.
See, most men believe that when a woman get’s pregnant, all bets are off and they can have sex as often as they like, because, well…HEY…You WON’T get pregnant (and yes, I’ve heard that same comment coming out of Red’s mouth) and they seem to think that it should be a non stop sex fest of the most active kind. Never once thinking about how you feel…am I right? Fortunately, or unfortunately, I’m not sure which it is…I have never been lacking in the desire or get up and go department…until now. With this pregnancy, the LAST thing I want to do is knock boots on a Monday afternoon. In fact, eating molten hot liquid glass seems like a much more appealing lunch time activity than an afternoon delight.
I am trying…honest, to relight that fire. I am drinking a lot more water, because if you weren’t aware, lack of lubrication…yes, I said it…LUBRICATION is one of the biggest issues pregnant ladies have. The baby is so busy sucking up all our energy and moisture that the lady bits are on the losing end of the hydration scale. Drinking water, rather than coffee, soda, coffee, tea, coffee…*sigh…can certainly help out with personal lubrication. I am also perusing the naughty tumblr blogs on the interweb having a peeky poo at the photos that make me actually THINK about sex…not dread it.
On Tuesday, I will be 10 weeks along…almost into the second trimester, which…ladies and gentlemen, is the carnival ride of pregnancy. The energy levels are up, the body is feeling goddess like, the breasts are swelling and not so tender anymore…all in all, The SEX is much much more appealing.
Check in often…see the belly grow and don’t tell Big Red I’m spilling the beans on our sex life.
Natalie
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First of all congrats on the little one! Second of all, I feel like with the first my Huns was very patient with me on the sex thing but with the secon. Not so much. Then in my final month, when I was horny as all get out nothing! I mean nothing! And of course the lady bits. The lady bits were so neglected by me the second time around. I hope your second trimester brings more satisfaction and understanding, for you, your bits and Big Red!