Many of us have a mental life bucket list. It might not be written or framed above our desks, but it’s always on our minds. Swimming in the ocean, buying an expensive car or piece of jewelry, somewhere in our minds, this list exists.
You should also have a Sex Bucket List!
In the corners of your mind, you know there are things you want to try–things you want to experience. How about some of these?
1. Watch an Erotic Movie. Society has impressed upon us that watching others engage in intimate acts is a BIG no-no. Often, a movie with a bit of romance or sex is the just the thing couples need to kick things back into gear. Rent a naughty movie with your partner or buy one off the internet! Snuggle down under the covers and see what happens.
2. Have Sex Somewhere Other Than the Bed! Many couples believe that only place to have sex is the bedroom in the bed. If you aren’t able to take your lovemaking outside the confines of those four walls (kids, roommates) then move the sex to the floor, or stand up against the wall. Whatever it takes, experience sex somewhere else!
3. Get Tied Up! Dig through that closet and pull out some old ties and belts. Secure them to the bed frame and then tie up or be tied up. Restricting your ability to move, in a fun way, can be freeing. When you are the one tied up, you are able to just relax and enjoy the attention being lavished upon your body. Give in to the feelings of hands on your skin. Melt into the sensation of fingers and tongue on you.
4. Have Really Loud Sex in a Hotel Room. Do it! Moan, groan and just let go! WHO CARES if you keep the neighbors up for one night! You are at a hotel. It’s not like you’re ever going to see these people again! I don’t recommend you choose the hotel your cousins are getting married at and pick that night to let loose, but drop the kids off at the grandparents, book a room at the Super 8 and get busy like you are newlyweds!
5. Wear Sexy Lingerie or a Naughty Costume for Your Partner. Guys this goes for you too! Go the department store and choose some sexy silky boxer shorts. How about some Calvin Klein package hugging boxer briefs? Wear something that makes her pulse race when you drop those jeans! Ladies, time to ditch the granny panties! Go to an amazing lingerie store and INVEST in some great fitting sexy gear. Allow the experts to help fit you so that you feel comfortable and desirable and super sexy. Greet him at the door or eat a candlelit dinner together wearing only your sexy skivvies!
6. Go Sex Toy Shopping Together. Let him help pick out the toy for both of you. Either a cock ring or a vibrator, something that you both can enjoy together. You might be surprised how willing a partner will be to shop for fun toys together.
7. Learn to be an Oral Expert. There are SO MANY books on the subject, entire websites dedicated to fellatio. Read up! Also, Ask your partner what they like! Learn what they love, what they hate and be sure to get really great at the love and like!
8. Make Love Outdoors! That’s right. Find a place to park your car, spread out a thick blanket and explore each other in the great outdoors. There is something to be said for sex under the stars and finding just the right place to free your inner goddess with your partner is the perfect way to top off your sex bucket list!
What’s on your list?